implement publicHoistPattern and hoistPattern (#23567)

### What does this PR do?
Adds support for `publicHoistPattern` in `bunfig.toml` and
`public-hoist-pattern` from `.npmrc`. This setting allows you to select
transitive packages to hoist to the root node_modules making them
available for all workspace packages.

```toml
[install]
# can be a string
publicHoistPattern = "@types*"
# or an array
publicHoistPattern = [ "@types*", "*eslint*" ]
```

`publicHoistPattern` only affects the isolated linker.

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Adds `hoistPattern`. `hoistPattern` is the same as `publicHoistPattern`,
but applies to the `node_modules/.bun/node_modules` directory instead of
the root node_modules. Also the default value of `hoistPattern` is `*`
(everything is hoisted to `node_modules/.bun/node_modules` by default).

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Fixes a determinism issue constructing the
`node_modules/.bun/node_modules` directory.

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closes #23481
closes #6160
closes #23548
### How did you verify your code works?
Added tests for
- [x] only include patterns
- [x] only exclude patterns
- [x] mix of include and exclude
- [x] errors for unexpected expression types
- [x] excluding direct dependency (should still include)
- [x] match all with `*`
- [x] string and array expression types

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src/string/immutable.zig

@@ -2306,6 +2306,9 @@ pub const visibleCodepointWidthType = visible_.visibleCodepointWidthType;
 pub const escapeHTMLForLatin1Input = escapeHTML_.escapeHTMLForLatin1Input;
 pub const escapeHTMLForUTF16Input = escapeHTML_.escapeHTMLForUTF16Input;
 
+pub const escapeRegExp = escapeRegExp_.escapeRegExp;
+pub const escapeRegExpForPackageNameMatching = escapeRegExp_.escapeRegExpForPackageNameMatching;
+
 pub const addNTPathPrefix = paths_.addNTPathPrefix;
 pub const addNTPathPrefixIfNeeded = paths_.addNTPathPrefixIfNeeded;
 pub const addLongPathPrefix = paths_.addLongPathPrefix;
@@ -2347,6 +2350,7 @@ pub const CodePoint = i32;
 const string = []const u8;
 
 const escapeHTML_ = @import("./immutable/escapeHTML.zig");
+const escapeRegExp_ = @import("./escapeRegExp.zig");
 const paths_ = @import("./immutable/paths.zig");
 const std = @import("std");
 const unicode = @import("./immutable/unicode.zig");