implement publicHoistPattern and hoistPattern (#23567)

### What does this PR do?
Adds support for `publicHoistPattern` in `bunfig.toml` and
`public-hoist-pattern` from `.npmrc`. This setting allows you to select
transitive packages to hoist to the root node_modules making them
available for all workspace packages.

```toml
[install]
# can be a string
publicHoistPattern = "@types*"
# or an array
publicHoistPattern = [ "@types*", "*eslint*" ]
```

`publicHoistPattern` only affects the isolated linker.

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Adds `hoistPattern`. `hoistPattern` is the same as `publicHoistPattern`,
but applies to the `node_modules/.bun/node_modules` directory instead of
the root node_modules. Also the default value of `hoistPattern` is `*`
(everything is hoisted to `node_modules/.bun/node_modules` by default).

---

Fixes a determinism issue constructing the
`node_modules/.bun/node_modules` directory.

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closes #23481
closes #6160
closes #23548
### How did you verify your code works?
Added tests for
- [x] only include patterns
- [x] only exclude patterns
- [x] mix of include and exclude
- [x] errors for unexpected expression types
- [x] excluding direct dependency (should still include)
- [x] match all with `*`
- [x] string and array expression types

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test/harness.ts

@@ -1755,6 +1755,13 @@ cache = "${join(dir, ".bun-cache").replaceAll("\\", "\\\\")}"
       bunfig += `registry = "${this.registryUrl()}"\n`;
     }
     bunfig += `linker = "${opts.isolated ? "isolated" : "hoisted"}"\n`;
+    if (opts.publicHoistPattern) {
+      if (typeof opts.publicHoistPattern === "string") {
+        bunfig += `publicHoistPattern = "${opts.publicHoistPattern}"`;
+      } else {
+        bunfig += `publicHoistPattern = [${opts.publicHoistPattern.map(p => `"${p}"`).join(", ")}]`;
+      }
+    }
     await write(join(dir, "bunfig.toml"), bunfig);
   }
 }
@@ -1763,6 +1770,7 @@ type BunfigOpts = {
   saveTextLockfile?: boolean;
   npm?: boolean;
   isolated?: boolean;
+  publicHoistPattern?: string | string[];
 };
 
 export async function readdirSorted(path: string): Promise<string[]> {