[publish images] Remove sccache, use ccache only (#25682)

## Summary
- Remove sccache support entirely, use ccache only
- Missing ccache no longer fails the build (just skips caching)
- Remove S3 distributed cache support

## Changes
- Remove `cmake/tools/SetupSccache.cmake` and S3 distributed cache
support
- Simplify `CMakeLists.txt` to only use ccache
- Update `SetupCcache.cmake` to not fail when ccache is missing
- Replace sccache with ccache in bootstrap scripts (sh, ps1)
- Update `.buildkite/Dockerfile` to install ccache instead of sccache
- Update `flake.nix` and `shell.nix` to use ccache
- Update documentation (CONTRIBUTING.md, contributing.mdx,
building-windows.mdx)
- Remove `scripts/build-cache/` directory (was only for sccache S3
access)

## Test plan
- [x] Build completes successfully with `bun bd`

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scripts/build.mjs

@@ -108,8 +108,8 @@ async function build(args) {
   await startGroup("CMake Build", () => spawn("cmake", buildArgs, { env }));
 
   if (ciCppBuild) {
-    await startGroup("sccache stats", () => {
-      spawn("sccache", ["--show-stats"], { env });
+    await startGroup("ccache stats", () => {
+      spawn("ccache", ["--show-stats"], { env });
     });
   }