bun install: support for minimumReleaseAge (#22801)

### What does this PR do?

fixes #22679

* includes a better error if a package cant be met because of the age
(but would normally)
* logs the resolved one in --verbose (which can be helpful in debugging
to show it does know latest but couldn't use)
* makes bun outdated show in the table when the package isn't true
latest
* includes a rudimentary "stability" check if a later version is in
blacked out time (but only up to 7 days as it goes back to latest with
min age)


For extended security we could also Last-Modified header of the tgz
download and then abort if too new (just like the hash)


| install error with no recent version | bun outdated respecting the
rule |
| --- | --- |
<img width="838" height="119" alt="image"
src="https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/b60916a8-27f6-4405-bfb6-57f9fa8bb0d6"
/> | <img width="609" height="314" alt="image"
src="https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/d8869ff4-8e16-492c-8e4c-9ac1dfa302ba"
/> |

For stable release we will make it use `3d` type syntax instead of magic
second numbers.


### How did you verify your code works?

tests & manual

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bunfig.toml

@@ -10,3 +10,4 @@ preload = "./test/preload.ts"
 
 [install]
 linker = "isolated"
+minimumReleaseAge = 1