### What does this PR do?
Fixes thread safety issues due to file poll code being not thread safe.
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### How did you verify your code works?
Added tests for lifecycle scripts. The tests are unlikely to reproduce
the bug, but we'll know if it actually fixes the issue if
`test/package.json` doesn't show in flaky tests anymore.
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