### What does this PR do?
When we added "happy eyeballs" support to fetch(), it meant that
`onOpen` would not be called potentially for awhile. If the AbortSignal
is aborted between `connect()` and the socket becoming
readable/writable, then we would delay closing the connection until the
connection opens. Fixing that fixes#18536.
Separately, the `isHTTPS()` function used in abort and in request body
streams was not thread safe. This caused a crash when many redirects
happen simultaneously while either AbortSignal or request body messages
are in-flight.
This PR fixes https://github.com/oven-sh/bun/issues/14137
### How did you verify your code works?
There are tests
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