### What does this PR do?
Enable compiler flags
Update SQLite amalgamation using https://www.sqlite.org/download.html
source code
[sqlite-src-3500400.zip](https://www.sqlite.org/2025/sqlite-src-3500400.zip)
with:
```bash
./configure CFLAGS="-DSQLITE_ENABLE_UPDATE_DELETE_LIMIT"
make sqlite3.c
```
This is the same version that before just with this adicional flag that
must be enabled when generating the amalgamation so we are actually able
to use this option. You can also see that without this the build will
happen but the feature will not be enable
https://buildkite.com/bun/bun/builds/27940, as informed in
https://www.sqlite.org/howtocompile.html topic 5.
### How did you verify your code works?
Add in CI two tests that check if the feature is enabled on windows
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Co-authored-by: Claude Bot <claude-bot@bun.sh>
Co-authored-by: Claude <noreply@anthropic.com>
