Replace `catch bun.outOfMemory()`, which can accidentally catch
non-OOM-related errors, with either `bun.handleOom` or a manual `catch
|err| switch (err)`.
(For internal tracking: fixes STAB-1070)
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Co-authored-by: Dylan Conway <dylan.conway567@gmail.com>
### What does this PR do?
optimize advance method
after this optimizations
100k req the query bellow in 1 connection takes 792ms instead of 6s
```sql
SELECT CAST(1 AS UNSIGNED) AS x
```
1mi req of the query bellow with 10 connections takes 57.41s - 62.5s
instead of 162.50s, mysql2 takes 1516.94s for comparison
```sql
SELECT * FROM users_bun_bench LIMIT 100
```
### How did you verify your code works?
Tested and benchmarked + CI
### What does this PR do?
Add MySQL support, Refactor will be in a followup PR
### How did you verify your code works?
A lot of tests
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Co-authored-by: cirospaciari <6379399+cirospaciari@users.noreply.github.com>
